KPF’s kids party clothes guide
If you’re already up to your ears in pins of stylish party wear dresses, gowns, frocks & shoes for boys and girls; you’re not alone. Kids party clothes are an important consideration for birthdays, weddings and special occasions. While we’re not a retailer, we totally get the need to balance style, comfort and durability when planning for what they’ll wear and know that the right party wear helps your little one feel confident and sociable. In this kids party clothes guide, we’ll make some suggestions about what you should consider and point you in a few helpful directions to find good fits for your little ones.
Colours, fabric and patterns for kids party wear
Breathable fabrics such as cotton blends and linen ensure comfort, while colours like navy, grey, beige and pastel shades offer a polished, timeless look. We’d stay away from bold patterns where possible, as these can clash in photos with the other children. But if your kids like colour, jewel tones can be a safe and fun choice.
Kids party wear for girls
A frock is the go-to for most party wear for girls. It looks a little more dressy than trousers and, with some cycle shorts underneath, is pretty all-purpose:
Party wear frocks for girls
A simple flock is easy to wear, comfortable and perfect for both casual and formal parties. That makes them ideal for birthdays and family gatherings, as they allow freedom of movement for active children. We recommend you shop for dresses made from soft cotton blends or lightweight fabrics so there’s less chance they’ll be overstimulated by their clothing on the day.
Party wear gowns for girls
For more formal occasions, kids party wear gowns offer an elegant and stylish option. Gowns are usually longer in length and are perfect for weddings, receptions and festive celebrations. With both full-length and semi-gown options, there’s a variety to choose from with fun and light embellishments such as lace, net or sequins. These are best paired with simple accessories and comfortable shoes. And if choosing sequins, make sure the fabric is lined, and there are no sequins near the edges of the garment, as these can be very itchy.
Party wear set for girls
If it’s a more active event like soft play, park adventures or the like, we recommend a matching coord set. This looks very put together, while being soft and breathable. Skip the joggers and instead go for a more classy jumper set - if it’s not too hot outside.

Kids party wear for boys
It’s not just jeans anymore! The trends in kids party wear for boys have evolved to offer a wider array of stylish outfits that don’t compromise on comfort.
Popular boys’ party wear styles
- Casual sets for active events and outdoor play
- Shirts with trousers or chino shorts for indoor events
- Waistcoat and blazer sets for formal occasions
- Traditional suits for weddings and receptions
Cut out all labels and tags and check if any appliques or details are scratchy before purchasing any kids party outfit for lads. You don’t want them itching or getting red-faced in photos.
Kids party wear shoes
We all know the right footwear completes any party look. But kids party wear shoes should always prioritise comfort, safety and durability over style. You can really go basic and soft here. That reduces the chance that they’ll feel a pitch or get a blister.
Party wear shoes for girls
- Fabric ballerina flats for comfort and style
- Leather upper sandals for summer parties
- Low-heel party shoes without shiny, hard plastic uppers
Party wear shoes for boys
- Soft lace-up boots or smart trainers for casual events
- Matte loafers for smart-casual occasions
- Leather brogues for formal outfits
Okay, so clothes are sorted…want help with the rest of your party planning? Our blog is full of great tips!