How to make a party more fun for kids

Panic! It's going wrong, they're looking bored! The truth is… what’s fun to us adults isn’t always great for kids. Fun for children means engagement, movement, imagination and variety. But what sounds like a tall order for a kids party can really just be boiled down into simple planning choices. Just a few key decisions now can transform an ordinary kids’ party into an unforgettable experience for your little ones. Here are our actionable, parent-friendly tips on how to make a party more fun for kids.

Create a kid-friendly party atmosphere

From the music to the theme, you want to centre your child and their friends. Here’s how to do just that:

A theme that sparks imagination

Don’t be too specific. We find that a strong, simple theme like superheroes, princesses, animals, space or dinosaurs is easier (and cheaper to work with) for both you and your guests. You’ll easily be able to find decorations, music, costumes and activities that make each theme more fun if you keep it more general.

A sensory-friendly environment

You don’t want a bunch of overstimulated kids, so choose soft background music appropriate for the theme. (In this blog, we’ve got a ready-made kids Spotify playlist for Christmas and another here that’s good for general kids party music.) Create zones for active play and quiet time so they can more easily self-regulate. And keep a scent-free and allergen-free environment to reduce any risk of illness.

How to make a party more fun for kids

Help the kids warm up

Just like adults, kids need help breaking the ice, too. We like offering colouring sheets matching the theme, sticker stations or temporary tattoo tables they can DIY or crafts to help kids socialise without the pressure of direct introductions. If you want to be a bit more prescriptive, try a ‘Follow the Leader’ mini parade, bubble popping challenge or scavenger hunt with easy clues around the party space to get everyone involved.

Offer age-appropriate games

There’s nothing more embarrassing than parachute play, beanbag toss or a freeze dance at a tween's birthday party. So, when you’re planning activities, think about the interests and age of your participants. Video games, crafts and LEGO stations work for most kids, but entertainers, bouncy castles and sports day games tend to top out at a younger age.

Keep it moving

Rotate activities regularly to prevent boredom, alternating high-energy with calmer activities to manage overstimulation. And use clear, simple transitions so no one is caught off-guard, like, “When the music stops, switch stations!” or “We’ll do a movie from 1 pm to 2:30 pm, then we’ll open presents before heading home at 3:15 pm.”

Find a memorable finale

Taking a group photo with props, opening presents, having cake, giving out small, useful party favours or doing a countdown rave dance are all ways to make the final few minutes exciting, so plan a little finale.

 

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